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Oct 14Liked by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

This was such an interesting perspective.

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Oct 14Liked by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

Thank you for sharing. Isn’t it interesting that words remain in our brain “rent free” and alter our view?

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Yes indeed.

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Oct 14Liked by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

Such a relatable piece Dr.C! I find this is an experience of some or nearly all of educated black woman friends. Often I wonder what I have taught my sons about efucated black women and that will impact their choices of partner.....hmmm

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Oct 14Liked by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

"it's a communal affair" - love this

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Oct 15Liked by Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes

Whew. Thank you for this.

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